So, the big question with Nursing is “Is it okay to cry when our patient is terminally ill or dying?”

Personally, if I was a patient (heaven forbid), I’d rather have a nurse who is not afraid to cry during my sickest time, than to have one that just stands there coldly without any emotions. Of course, crying uncontrollably and breaking down in front of everyone else in the room when a patient passes away certainly hurts your professionalism, but shedding a few tears? I don’t think so. As human beings, we all have emotions, even if we are well-trained health care professionals. A lot of times, if a patient is hospitalized for an extended period, it is normal for nurses and doctors to build up a relationship with the patient over time. To sob when the patient has passed away, what it means to the patient and the patient’s family is that you care about them. Being professional is certainly a huge part in Nursing, but it’s not ALL about Nursing. Not only do  I think it’s okay to sob, I think it’s also okay to give the family a pat on the shoulder, share a hug or a heartfelt prayer with them afterwards. Sometimes these simple acts can connect both you and the patient and those who have left behind, and make you a more empathetic nurse.